stronger

QUOTE
"She looked back on her life and realized everything that happened had only made her that much stronger."

it doesn't matter that this quote is refering to a female. it can really mean anyone. anywhere.

sometimes things just happen in a way that hurts. that hurts really bad. there are really two ways of dealing with this. One is to wallow in it. To just let the hurt flow over you and drown you. You can barely manage it and pretty soon you break from the pressure.

the other way to deal with it is stregnth. to reach down inside yourself and say no. i'm not going to let this control me. i'm going to be strong and i'm going to work everyday towards being alright. that's really the only way. otherwise you'll always be hurt.

waiting around for something to fix you isn't going to work. i've tried it. i know people who have tried it. all of us realized that waiting sucks and does not work. the only that can fix us is ourselves. one day we just decided we were sick of it. and we decided to get better.

this is what makes us stronger. like lifting weights with your mind. next time soemthign bad comes along... you won't let it control you. you'll over come it much faster. you'll be stronger.

hayley